what I did next?
I hired a personal trainer and a nutritionist because I'd spent 25 years ignoring my body.
I studied Human Design and astrology - not to become all 'woo woo', but because I needed answers to help me understand myself more and why I'd built a life that looked perfect but felt hollow.
I finally took the month-long bucket list trip to Africa I'd been putting off for 25 years.
And I started asking: What do I actually want? Not what I'm supposed to want. What do I want?
what I do now
I don't teach people to succeed in broken systems. I teach them to see the system clearly - then choose consciously whether to stay, change it, or leave.
This isn't life coaching. It's transformation work.
I facilitate crisis-to-clarity transformations for middle managers who are carrying impossible weight and asking: 'Is this what I worked for?'
Through corporate keynotes, workshops, and my leadership transformation program (The Unspoken Rules), I help people stop performing and start living.
Because leadership without self-awareness is survival, not leadership.
And if I've learnt anything - everything starts with you.